On the winter morning of January 31, 1861, Abraham Lincoln stepped inside a secluded farmhouse seemingly adrift on the vast Illinois prairie. The president-elect had left his hometown of Springfield only once in the eight months since garnering the Republican presidential nomination鈥攊n order to finally meet his running mate, Hannibal Hamlin, in person鈥攂ut he had one special goodbye that he needed to deliver in person before departing Illinois for his inauguration. Inside that cozy farmhouse tucked underneath a blanket of snow, Lincoln bent down his lanky frame and embraced the wizened woman he called 鈥淢other,鈥 not the woman who gave birth to him, however, but the stepmother who helped to set him on the path to the White House.
Nancy Hanks Lincoln, who gave birth to the Great Emancipator on February 12, 1809, had instilled the virtues of honesty and compassion in her son and sowed the seeds of his intellectual curiosity. Although lacking a formal education of her own, Nancy Lincoln impressed the importance of learning and reading on her young boy as they moved about the Kentucky and Indiana frontier. When his mother suddenly died in 1818 after drinking milk tainted with poisonous white snakeroot, 9-year-old Abraham was devastated.
Stepmother Sarah Bush Johnston Arrives
Fourteen months later, Lincoln鈥檚 father, Thomas, returned to his former haunt of Elizabethtown, Kentucky, and called on Sarah Bush Johnston. The pair had known each other from the Lincolns鈥 former time in Elizabethtown, and as soon as the widow Johnston, who had lost her husband in an 1816 cholera epidemic, answered the knock on the door, Thomas proposed. Once he agreed to pay off her late husband鈥檚 outstanding debts, Sarah accepted the matrimonial offer. Widow and widower wed on December 2, 1819.
Thomas Lincoln brought Sarah and her three children back to his small Indiana cabin to live with his two surviving children, Abraham and sister Sarah. Thomas Lincoln鈥檚 new wife found Indiana to be 鈥渨ild and desolate,鈥 and the same could have been said about feral young Abraham. Sarah Lincoln dressed him up so that he 鈥渓ooked more human鈥 and brought a woman鈥檚 touch to their sparse cabin. 鈥淪he very quickly turned things around,鈥 says Jeff Oppenheimer, author of 鈥淭hat Nation Might Live,鈥 an historical novel based on his extensive research into the strong bond between Lincoln and his stepmother. 鈥淭hey were living on dirt floors. Sarah had Thomas put in a wooden floor, fix the roof and whitewash the house. Within weeks, it was a whole new household. They became human again.鈥
As testimony to the nurturing of Nancy Lincoln, whom her son began to call his 鈥渁ngel mother,鈥 Sarah Lincoln found her new stepson to be a model child. 鈥淎be was the best boy I ever saw,鈥 she said years later after his death. 鈥淚 can say what scarcely one woman鈥攁 mother鈥攃an say in a thousand and it is this鈥擜be never gave me a cross word or look and never refused in fact, or even in appearance, to do anything I requested.鈥 Sarah also vouched for Honest Abe鈥檚 long-standing reputation for integrity. 鈥淗e never told me a lie in his life鈥攏ever evaded, never equivocated, never dodged.鈥
Supporting His Education, Earning His Affection
Sarah filled the enormous void in Lincoln鈥檚 life after the loss of his biological mother. Although likely illiterate herself, she furthered Nancy鈥檚 work in cultivating Abe鈥檚 reading comprehension and intellect. Sarah quenched her stepson鈥檚 thirst for knowledge by providing him with books to read. 鈥淪arah had an appreciation for the value of an education,鈥 Oppenheimer says. 鈥淪he recognized early on there was something special about this boy and defended his right to pursue his intellectual development.鈥
Stepmother and stepson quickly forged a loving bond. 鈥淗is mind and mine, what little I had, seemed to run together, move in the same direction,鈥 Sarah said. She treated Lincoln as if he was her flesh-and-blood by offering love, kindness and encouragement. He returned the affection, calling her 鈥淢other.鈥 In 1861, Lincoln confided to a relative that his stepmother 鈥渉ad been his best friend in this world and that no son could love a mother more than he loved her.鈥
When Thomas Lincoln died in 1851, Sarah found herself a widow once again. Lincoln helped to support his stepmother and maintained a 40-acre plot for her on the Illinois plains. As Lincoln departed his stepmother鈥檚 side on his 1861 visit, tears welled up in her blue-gray eyes. Sarah had never wanted him to run for president, fearful that something would happen to him. When her premonition was fulfilled four years later and the news from Ford鈥檚 Theatre arrived, Sarah pulled her apron over her face, began to sob and cried out, 鈥淭hey鈥檝e killed him. I knew they would. I knew they would.鈥
When Sarah died in 1869, she was buried in a black woolen dress given to her by her stepson during their final reunion, a token of appreciation for all she had done for him. 鈥淪he recognized a boy of tremendous talent and saw the diamond when virtually everyone else around this gangly, awkward boy saw the rough,鈥 Oppenheimer says. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 what mothers do.鈥